"You shall not covet...anything that belongs to your neighbor." (v.17). God provides examples of what He means. Don't covet your neighbor's wife, house, servants, ox, donkeys, or anything! To covet means to desire passionately or intensely. To want something so severely hurts our souls. God wants us to live in humility and gratitude. Coveting may be normal, but God commands us to avoid it because it hurts us.
Never passionately desiring something someone else has is easy to say, but sometimes it happens before we even recognize what's happened. So, what can we do about it? Talk to God immediately! Come before Him. Apologize for coveting and start praising Him for all He has given you. We can come before God with any sin we’ve committed, and He will forgive us. Practicing gratitude is one of the most impactful things you can do. Gratitude has the power to shift and transform your perspective, and that is life-changing! I'm sure you've heard about the power of gratitude, but have you ever experienced it? I highly recommend it. The more gratitude you practice, the less you’ll covet.
God wanted the gratitude of the Israelites, not just because He’s worthy of praise, but because it’s good for us! Jesus taught these shifts in perspective, teaching us to focus on the Kingdom of God and the things we can't see rather than letting the things we can see (in this world) distract us and weigh us down. (Matthew 6:33). Paul reminds us of this teaching in Colossians 3:2,
“Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth” (NASB).
The theme continues, God’s commandments are good for us. The Ten Commandments were never given to restrict our freedom. They were given so we could thrive. Imagine how beautiful our world would be if we kept these Ten Commandments. The sin that rules our lives now would not be permitted, but it’s only holding us back from what God has prepared for us. His pleasing and perfect will. (Romans 12:2).
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